Parenting is an adventure that rarely goes according to plan, but for Heather and Riley Delaney, the journey has been nothing short of extraordinary. The arrival of their twin daughters, Abby and Erin, in 2016, turned their world upside down in ways they never could have imagined. Learning during pregnancy that the girls were conjoined at the head was a moment of profound shock, but it was also the moment they discovered a depth of love and determination they never knew they possessed. Their story is a powerful lesson in embracing your children for exactly who they are.
From the very beginning, Heather and Riley chose hope over fear. They made the conscious decision to move forward with the pregnancy, trusting in their daughters’ strength and the capabilities of modern medicine. This foundational choice defined their entire path. After the girls were born, the family faced a grueling 485-day stay in the hospital, a period that tested their endurance but also solidified their bond. Through it all, their blog and social media became a window into their world, allowing them to share both their fears and their triumphs with a supportive community.
The family’s life changed forever after a risky, 11-hour separation surgery proved successful. Bringing their two separate daughters home was a victory in itself, but it was just the start of a new kind of normal. Parenting Abby and Erin has involved a continuous cycle of hospital appointments, follow-up surgeries, and careful monitoring of their development. It’s a reality that requires immense organization and patience, but one that Heather and Riley meet with grace, celebrating every small step forward.
The family’s journey took another unexpected turn when both girls were diagnosed with autism. In a heartfelt blog post, Heather shared her initial fears and tears, worrying about the stigma and the additional challenges her daughters might face. Yet, in true Delaney fashion, this new diagnosis was met with the same unwavering acceptance. She affirmed that it changed nothing about the incredible love they have for their girls, a beautiful reflection of what it means to love a child without conditions.
Today, watching Abby and Erin grow—taking steps, running, and exploring the world—is a source of immense joy. Heather and Riley don’t look back and wish for a different story. Instead, they feel an overwhelming pride for the remarkable individuals their daughters are becoming. Their experience reminds every parent that while the path may be unpredictable, the power of love is the most reliable guide, capable of turning the most daunting challenges into stories of beautiful triumph.
