When my daughter-in-law Jessica asked me to babysit my grandson Luke, I was happy to help. Spending time with Luke is always a pleasure, and I wanted to support Jessica and my son Aaron with a weekend off.
But when I returned home, I found a note from Jessica with a detailed bill. The charges started small but soon included fees for watching TV, drinking water, and using the bathroom. I was stunned and hurt. I had cared for Luke out of love, not for money.
I felt disrespected and confused. How could Jessica think this was okay? I wrote her a calm message explaining my feelings and asking for respect. Her reply was brief and dismissive, offering no real apology.
Our relationship has since become distant. I still help with Luke sometimes, but I carry a heavy sadness. I wonder if I’m overreacting or if my feelings are justified. After years of love and support, I never expected this. I’m now seeking guidance on what to do next.
