A $10,000 hole in my daughter’s college fund exposed a betrayal that shook my home. I’m Tom, 46, and this is how I faced my wife’s deceit, defended my daughter, and found the courage to prioritize what’s right.
As a dad, I’ve swallowed my anger to keep peace, but some lines can’t be crossed. My daughter, Ellie, 18, has been my world since her mom passed when she was five. We were a pair until I married Susan four years ago, welcoming her daughter, Ava, then 12. I wanted a blended family, but Ellie and Ava stayed distant, like roommates. I pushed for equality—same gifts, family meals, group trips—hoping to unite us. I’d saved for Ellie’s college since her birth, honoring her mom’s wish, and started a fund for Ava, wanting both girls to thrive.
I thought Susan shared my vision, but I was naive. Checking Ellie’s college account, partly hers at 18, I saw $10,000 missing. I rechecked, heart pounding, but it was gone—textbooks, fees, future. I called Ellie. “I didn’t take it,” she said, voice cracking. “Susan said it was for Ava. She got my account info. I’m sorry.” My stomach dropped. Susan? I found her in the dining room, sipping wine, texting. “Why’d you take $10,000 from Ellie’s fund?” I asked. She looked up, cool. “Ava needed it for a New Zealand film workshop. Flights, gear—it’s costly. Ellie agreed.”
I was stunned. “A workshop? With Ellie’s money?” Susan shrugged. “Ellie’s fund is big. It’s just $10,000.” Rage flared. “You didn’t ask me,” I said. “You stole.” She scoffed. “Family shares.” I felt empty. “Ava’s college fund is over,” I said. “No more money.” Susan shouted, “That’s cruel!” I replied, “Betrayal isn’t love.” She stormed out. Ava later sobbed, “You’re mean!” I said, “You should’ve asked.” Susan claimed Ellie’s savings justified it. I said, “Ellie’s my priority.” I slept in the guest room, heart sore.
Susan’s dad called, offering to repay, urging calm. But trust was broken. Ellie came home, heavy-hearted. On the balcony, she said, “I didn’t want to cause fights.” I held her hand. “You’re enough, Ellie.” Susan, with new jewelry, said, “Don’t destroy us.” I replied, “It’s about honesty.” She left, bag packed, no apology. Ellie’s fund is safe, but our family’s cracked. Susan texts about costs, no remorse. I linger on the balcony, proud I chose Ellie, knowing love means standing up for those who trust you.