Garrett Gee, a renowned travel influencer, is known for embracing adventure with his children. Yet, the video showing him throwing his 7-year-old son off a cliff elicited backlash accusing him of reckless parenting.

Responding to critics, Garrett told PEOPLE that if viewers only saw that single video, their concerns were justified. But longtime followers know how careful and loving he is as a parent.

He shared the philosophy behind the stunt: “Eventually a baby eagle needs to leave the nest… or be tossed out of the nest and learn HE CAN FLY!” He also acknowledged the risks of pushing children too far but stressed the importance of teaching bravery and confidence.